Episodes

Aug 19, 2025
Aug 19, 2025
9 min
In this episode Jennifer Ivey reflects on the highs and lows of dating after 50, the positive impact of counseling, and the lessons that helped her set boundaries and recognize her value.She shares how personal growth, new friendships, and a local companion have helped her move past overthinking and start blooming toward a happier, more intentional future—one day at a time.

Aug 19, 2025
Aug 19, 2025
11 min
In this episode of 'Dating After 50', host Jennifer Ivey delves into the intricacies of communication in the world of mature dating. Exploring both verbal and nonverbal cues, Jennifer shares her personal struggles and insights on maintaining transparency and recognizing the often-overlooked signals that partners convey without words.With an emphasis on the challenges of finding genuine connection amidst societal expectations and personal vulnerabilities, this episode offers guidance for those seeking meaningful relationships in midlife. Discover the importance of listening beyond spoken words and learn how to navigate the complex terrain of dating with awareness and empathy.Join Jennifer as she unravels the mystery of communication in midlife dating, striving for honesty and clarity in relationships where time is cherished and intentions are key.

May 18, 2025
May 18, 2025
11 min
In this episode of "Dating After 50," host Jennifer Ivey delves into the nuances of what constitutes a healthy relationship. With a candid and personal touch, Jennifer shares her insights and frustrations about midlife dating, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect, effective communication, and self-esteem.Jennifer invites listeners to reflect on their dating experiences and encourages them to approach relationships with a positive attitude, a commitment to growth, and a readiness to embrace new experiences. Join her as she explores the joys and challenges of finding companionship after 50, and why it's crucial to never settle for less than you deserve. Whether you're single or in a relationship, Jennifer's advice is both an inspiring and refreshing take on love in later years.

May 10, 2025
May 10, 2025
15 min
Join Jennifer Ivey on another insightful episode of Dating After 50, as she delves into the challenges of relationship anxiety, especially amidst the world of online dating. Drawing from personal experiences, Jennifer shares her journey of battling anxiety, overthinking, and low self-esteem while exploring the dating scene.In this episode, discover how past experiences and personal insecurities can cloud relationships, and why it's essential to love oneself first to truly connect with others. Jennifer emphasizes the importance of acknowledging anxiety and seeking help to foster healthier relationships.Through candid stories and honest reflections, learn about the impact of attachment styles, body image issues, and the fight for resilience in the pursuit of love after 50. This episode is a powerful reminder of the value of self-compassion and the hope of finding the right partner, even amidst the absurdities of online dating.

Apr 19, 2025
Apr 19, 2025
12 min
In this episode of "Dating After 50, Just Shoot Me," host Jennifer Ivey shares her personal experiences and insights on dating past the age of 50. She explores what constitutes a perfect date by gathering input from other women over 50, revealing that simple, heartfelt gestures often trump grandiose plans. The episode delves into Jennifer's own dating adventures, highlighting both enjoyable outings and those that didn't quite hit the mark.Jennifer emphasizes the importance of a genuine connection over superficial attractions and discusses how her criteria for an ideal partner have evolved over time. She reflects on the significance of self-love and understanding your own worth as a foundation for building meaningful relationships. Tune in for candid anecdotes, valuable lessons, and a deeper look into what it means to date with intention after 50.

Mar 29, 2025
Mar 29, 2025
7 min
Join Jennifer Ivey on this episode of 'Dating After 50, Just Shoot Me' as she explores the intriguing question: do opposites truly attract, and how can differences impact relationships in the later stages of life? Reflecting on her own experiences of a 20-year marriage and post-divorce dating challenges, Jennifer shares insights into the significance of compatibility, communication, and recognizing personal needs while dating.
Dive into the discussion on how balancing humor, empathy, and stability can strengthen bonds, while learning from past mistakes can help build healthier connections. Jennifer also highlights the importance of having mutual goals and maintaining open communication in a partnership, providing relatable anecdotes and valuable advice for singles navigating the dating world after 50.

Mar 21, 2025
Mar 21, 2025
10 min
In this episode, Jennifer Ivey dives deep into the intriguing world of attraction, especially in the context of dating after 50. With a mix of humor and candid anecdotes, she unravels the complex dynamics of how our thoughts and beliefs can shape our dating experiences. Jennifer seeks to understand the laws of attraction, discussing how positive and negative energies affect the kind of partners we meet. Through opinions gathered from friends and personal insights, she explores what women look for in a potential match and what they find off-putting. With a focus on self-belief and self-worth, she offers practical advice on navigating the dating scene, keeping an open mind, and maintaining confidence. Join Jennifer as she offers her perspectives on attracting the right partner and the importance of self-awareness in the journey of love.

Mar 15, 2025
Mar 15, 2025
10 min
Welcome to the episode of "Dating After 50, Just Shoot Me," where host Jennifer Ivey delves into one of the most crucial elements of any relationship: communication. In this episode, Jennifer explores how perceptions influence our dating experiences and the importance of communicating effectively, both through words and actions.
Jennifer shares her personal story and insights on the challenges of online dating, the significance of honest profiles, and the common pitfalls of communication mismatches. With a focus on being authentic and intentional, she offers advice on navigating ghosting and the fear of rejection.
Tune in as she encourages listeners to ask hard questions, be clear about their desires, and open themselves up to genuine connections, while respecting themselves and their dating partners. Whether you're new to dating or seeking to improve your current relationships, this episode provides valuable insights and encouragement to help you find meaningful connections.

Mar 7, 2025
Mar 7, 2025
9 min
Join Jennifer Ivey on this episode of "Dating After 50, Just Shoot Me" as she candidly shares her experiences and realizations about re-entering the dating scene post-divorce. With honesty and humor, Jennifer tackles the challenges of online dating, dealing with scammers, and the importance of self-discovery and self-worth in finding lasting companionship. Her story unfolds the hard-learned lessons of being equally yoked in relationships, learning to recognize red flags, and navigating the emotional aftermath of divorce. Whether you're just starting your dating journey or seeking validation in your experiences, this episode offers insight and encouragement for finding love and fulfillment in life's later chapters.

Mar 4, 2025
Mar 4, 2025
8 min
Explore the pitfalls and humorous encounters of online dating after 50 in this candid episode of Dating After 50, Just Shoot Me. From the art of crafting the perfect profile to the unexpected surprises in potential matches, join us as we delve into the complexities of finding genuine connections amidst a sea of less-than-ideal prospects.With a mix of personal anecdotes and valuable insights, we tackle the often humorous and sometimes frustrating realities of digital dating. Learn what works, what doesn't, and why some profiles may just leave you contemplating a life of solitude. Offering wisdom and wit, this episode is a call to embrace patience and intentionality in the search for meaningful relationships.
